‘Just think positive’? Probably one of the most irritating and unhelpful statements someone can say! When you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in self-doubt, replaying a mistake, or spiraling after a difficult interaction and someone suggests looking on the bright side, changing your mindset, or focusing on the positives do you not just want to slap them […]

Why Positive Thinking Doesn’t Fix How You Feel (And What Might Actually Help)

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I thought I’d feel different by now”? Maybe you overhauled your routine. Got on top of things for a while. Lost weight, or finally started exercising consistently. Landed the job, finished the project, sorted the thing you’d been putting off for months. For a while, it felt good. The […]

Why Changing Things on the Outside Hasn’t Fixed How You Feel on the Inside

Woman looking at reflection in mirror with self-doubt

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I’ll feel good enough when…”? I’ll feel good enough when they like me, better when I lose weight, more confident when I’ve sorted myself out and will finally like myself when things are different. Most women have some version of this thought. It might not always sound exactly the […]

What Self-Worth Actually Means (And Why ADHD Makes It So Much Harder)

Sometimes its hard to know whats having the biggest impact! How you feel about your body, your self-esteem or your ADHD traits. And that’s exactly what I want us to think about, starting with when your negative body thoughts taking the lead… Have you ever been getting dressed and felt your mood shift before the […]

Why Body Image and Self-Esteem Are So Closely Connected (And Why ADHD Makes It Harder)

young woman in warm sweater looking outside

Have you ever noticed that when life feels overwhelming, your body image thoughts seem to get louder?  Maybe something feels uncertain. Stress. Change. A low-level sense that something isn’t right. And then, almost without warning, your focus shifts. You start thinking more about how you look. You notice your body more. You feel more critical, […]

Body Image and Emotional Safety: Why Your Body Becomes the Target

Why does body image feel louder, more consuming, or more emotionally intense when you have ADHD? Not just an insecure moment, but the kind where one comment sticks to your ribs. One photo can spiral your whole mood. One subtle shift in someone’s tone makes you question your face, your stomach, your outfit, your worth. […]

ADHD and Body Image: Why the Connection Feels So Intense

Women embracing their flaws

We all like to make sure others are ok and be helpful, but when we are people pleasing often it can begin to create a discomfort, where you slowly realise you don’t quite know who you are anymore. Not in a dramatic, identity-crisis way. More in a quieter sense, that you’ve become very good at […]

How people pleasing disconnects you from yourself

Woman looking at reflection in mirror feeling trapped

That uncomfortable feeling of rejection often starts small. A text you thought you’d hear back from doesn’t come. A message sits unread longer than expected. Someone’s tone feels flatter than usual. And suddenly your stomach drops. Your mind starts racing. Did I say something wrong? Am I coming on too strong? Are they irritated with […]

Why Rejection Feels So Personal, and How It Affects Self-Worth

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