The Natalie Trusdale Blog: self-esteem building articles for your growth

“Think happy thoughts.”  Easier said than done though, right? Especially when that sneaky, negative voice decides to take over. There you are, minding your own business, reciting your positive affirmations… Until your brain pipes up with its two-pence worth, and you slide back into those unhelpful thinking habits. Bam. Happy thoughts, be gone.  Fortunately, understanding […]

Are you feeling a little bit lost in your life? There was a time, long ago, when you knew what you wanted. You had dreams, and you were happy. But now? You have no idea how you got here. And have no clue what to do about it.  To top it off, information on how […]

When you have little to no confidence and your self-worth is shot to pieces, the concept of loving yourself can feel completely out of reach.  But as someone who has been there, I’m here to tell you that you CAN love yourself; you just need to know where to start.  From being able to spot […]

The best self-love phrase you can use right now: ‘In order to soar, you must learn to F.L.Y. – First Love Yourself.’ – Unknown When was the last time you really, truly, loved yourself? Not in a self-important way, but in a way where you accepted who you are, made a conscious effort to be […]

When you’re feeling unhappy, it’s really hard to know where to start in an attempt to pick yourself up. And sometimes, a simple search for some inspirational quotes can be a good place to begin. But when you’re desperate to feel truly happy with yourself, it’s important to think about what happiness really means to […]

Do you feel like there’s a lack of intimacy in your relationship? Have days where you feel unattractive, tell yourself you’re not good enough, and generally struggle with those negative thought patterns? If so, the two may very well be linked. When you no longer share the closeness and affection you used to enjoy with […]

A lack of confidence can be annoying at best, stopping us from asking questions for fear of being laughed at. At worst, it’s debilitating; crushing what little self-esteem we’re desperately holding onto. But lack of confidence and self-esteem often go hand-in-hand, causing us to hold ourselves back. To hide, and to withdraw from the world.  […]

‘I miss my old self. I feel lost, and I have no idea how to find my way back. I’m not sure I even know who I am anymore.’  Sound familiar? While you might feel lost, your real self is actually still in there, buried under years of conditioning and experiences that have moulded you […]

Are you stuck in a never-ending cycle of negative thoughts? When you’re struggling with low self-esteem, low mood, anxiety, or depression, this type of thinking can become a vicious cycle, often without us even realising it’s happening. The inner voice is a sly one, spinning unhelpful thoughts from deep-rooted beliefs and cementing them even further. […]

Setting boundaries is more than just saying ‘no.’ Learn how to establish meaningful boundaries aligned with your values, and take steps to prioritise your well-being and relationships. Dive into Natalie Trusdale’s guide for actionable tips and insights.